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Some other things like some evidence that it might be a little bit because of the field that I'm in.

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So we all have our talk about your feelings and if there's an issue with somebody you got from dad and Utah than be assertive and all that.

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But that's something that cause so much. I think it has to be because of what I do. But also, I find that here it's more you're more able to

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feel bad until a play is just getting that amount, then you don't talk about it. Yeah. I really like what she said and you

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don't say a thing or if you say that's like, you know, they're said to be almost like a conflict there. So that, that's something that

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I find that it's easier to awareness of people talking about bounties. And but of course I'm talking about

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20 years ago so that there could be different now. But that was something that was different. Safety with the parenting style.

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I've had never hit me, but I hear a lot more like the discipline was a guilt trip. If you do that,

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is they kind of like moms guy because and so you would only been said so out of the womb. So kind of like that, that's sort of think you know, that.

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And I think it's great that now that I'm just painting glasses that give fee that have been done to them like when they tabulate. Well, I taught them that you're not

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a good kit because of some living thing. It'll make him think about what you're doing. They're tiny if you're good or bad

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or not like the the behaviors, I'm not the person. So those sort of things that I remember, it was ingested my family.

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It was also like in general, his concluding features to include that sort of thing. Make it here Good girl or whatever.

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But I know it's dumb. All the things they have changed a lot more open to, to work on that part of being more assertive

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and not happy with something to say it. And also why? Well, thank you. Not like you gaze.

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We just take not even a question to discuss that and now depressed and that we have now she had done a lot for that too.

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So that's good. That's good to know that, you know that that's where they are now. More like give way of like women's rights

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and gaze rise and that sort of thing. That out before, especially with, you know, with a dictatorship that, that was totally like

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out of the question because, you know, you're supposed to be this way and that's the way it was really like. The way the country was.

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Great with military-style that we'll see water and that's what you're supposed to do. So I imagine making

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the change if that once that he was out, everybody wanted to say what they wanted to stay and everybody's demanding. You know, it's like, well, same

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thing that's happening now, where do you want the problem to be solved? Anything? It takes some time. We can just think. You don't

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like right away the couple of months. So I think that was something that happened to live with for many dealership to democracy.

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Digirehab just falling on that comment, did your parents or your family actually have they said how things have changed, hopefully for

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the pattern sense to dictatorship. So yes. Well, including my brother, my brother's gay, so he's so happy that finally this steel,

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there's some things, you know, like the more accepted johnson That's sort of things but it's clicked on ask them.

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But at least it's a little in there. But definitely, you know, just being able to speak freely within your way of thinking if you agree

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or you don't live with what's going on here news for so many years that 73, then all this generation, that's all they knew.

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So they grew up that that's the way this thinking, that that's the way it is and all the sudden change

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and you allowed to do this things, hey, just have him. But definitely said that thing said. Not only just in terms of what they

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can be unable to express how you Thank you want. It's also in terms of what people say what to do to accomplish my gosh, yeah.

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We haven't covered with her. I feel like this is definitely a good thing or a good amount of information. So so exactly what I wanted to talk to you.

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Yeah. Actually, we did. Could you just explain on camera why the confidentiality in terms of like, we can't take any pictures

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on the outside of the building. And just in case one of the pulses that we have in the shelter that has to be

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kept confidential and location because when they come here to the shelter, they're trying to find a safe place until they take you

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the legal issues and safe for them to go back in house and home. So that's one of the reasons that we need to know pictures

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outside the house for anything that would disclose their location on the shelter that would

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put people in jeopardy anywhere. It's showing up here. I'm not going to happen. Thank you.

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Yeah. I mean, do you have any last questions are good. I mean, I feel like, yeah.

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Yeah. Let me do you have anything else? You'd like to share interest and just hearing about I mean,

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everything, especially from calling from last semester and hearing all about your profession and your work here and then hearing the background of that.

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I felt her and with a lot of what childhood does this mean, I shall try. I'm going to share the video TO and it's just to

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see you like that was just my perception of you. This is where she is now. This especially doing, it's great.

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But then there's so much more below at all. And amazingly enough, it's good because when you when you send me that email or something can pass.

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Yeah, I've been thinking about that and how there were certain things that happened in my life, like breaking into my house and within it,

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it in two images that might have been it was like a couple of things that I think my husband got laid off from work.

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It was just say one thing after another was like every month I'm like I'm scared to think about that fateful they might happen.

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And instead of thinking of it a bit about how handily like kind of like, you know, you need to think about like okay, how am I handling this situation right now?

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And that mindset thinking about like no line, I'm strong, thinking like that. And it's funny to talk about my husband, my husband in a different way,

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kind of like he he, he's added do with how are we going to move that somewhere else this is safe anymore. I was like, Why

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don't you show me where you're going to be another outbreak by the next day. And you know how you approach things in a different way and same thing with,

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you know, being laid off, then I can pay for a six month, but you should get a job and whatever whatever comes first in a sip.

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Yet to see to what that will be additional income. We can take credit cards or we would be all good with that, you know,

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that kind of thing, that they're doing whatever it takes to get there. And she said, I said thinking about that, you know,

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that's that's life and can have pledged just how the things are. And, you know, something that I remember from my parents when I

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feel my dad and I'm working, my mom was the only one working. How quickly? They decided to me to be a jazz

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to expenses and that sort of things. And I remember my mom the first thing, god, she said, Huh? So this literally to be like that anymore.

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So all the sound was drinking this powder thing. And but now we'll say, you know, cutting and don't things

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that is death in fact, reelect to be because I don't remember that they came back my pants. Think that, oh my god,

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my birthday that year. They think it was like the worst one because they didn't have enough money. And it's funny because they thought

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that for years until one time was that talking, they said the birthday present that I always remember is the one

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that they thinking was the worst. Was it bad that I had there were sipped book. I think it was the day of an effect or not so appropriate to.

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I got that and I had to take a couple of little things in there. But secondly, to meet that, like my stamp with me.

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Oh my God, are you kidding? You see that? Wow. That was there.

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So let's keep that stuff that they got in. I always remember one of my birthday present, the best wine and it was that year. But they thought they wanted they will from

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that breaks the mining type in, they managed to do that. You need to know, make it like the impact

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on the kids to be happy. And when my husband got laid off, thinking, alright, so we will need to cut this and this.

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I think one of the things that we don't really need, what can we do with exchange of doing that? So it was all in my head,

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like already planned if we needed to get to that when we did it, but I had a plan already my hand right away. And that was the first thing I thought.

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I remember my mom cutting in those things that you don't need to do it. One thing that I learned that from you because my dad and we,

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the way we communicate now females and they call me usually Monday, Tuesdays, they call me. But the email says it's a great thing,

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so we can do that all the time for the kids. Now. They can email them to me. And my dad was asking something about two. They don't know.

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How can we switch from NSF looked like you asking me that I guess I get a frog MS. That writing that I said I

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remember seeing my mom too and all this thing. And you did everything that he took to, you know, to build tedious accordingly.

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And so I said maybe hold this thing from they were like, Oh, okay. Thank you. Yeah, that's right. I think it was good for

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them to hear that too. That, you know, all of that. Paste that when you see your kids? Absolutely. The way that some

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offloading one that limits the lake itself, dealing with things that they'll wait till. Then. That's something that kids can pretty easily.

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And it's amazing you're right when you say parents don't always know what they are or how their actions are going to

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impact them later on. I'm even little things like he said that you pick up on and you keep with you forever.

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That's great. Here.